Friday, October 1, 2010

Be careful of who you bring aboard

I have someone who helped me on my team but since my vision is going in another direction. I am rethinking my involvement in a women's club which I support and pay dues. I am not sure it is best avenue to attract readership/fans to my website. I was hoping to draw like minded women to this club so they could provide some quality feedback, and suggestions. Since the website is not up and running and I did once announce it and got no feedback. I wonder how much time, money, and energy I want to spend on this.

I got in trouble by feeling 'sorry' for this person and I started paying for her meals, parking, and other incidentals for being in this club. But now I am resenting it because one..I see how she spends her money eating out and she makes no effort to try to creatively conserse money when she is unemployed. Now, she has the expectations that I have to pay for her involvement. I did ask her to be an assistant organizer and at the beginning I did state I would pay. But she wants to grow this club and do more activities which translates into money...she is forgetting the main overall purpose of why I created it in the first place. I don't have alot of money to spend right now doing activities which takes me from my real focus of creating, producing, and launching my website.

I am now angry I made a poor decision. I realized what good intentions I had in the beginning is not so good now. I was denied a business loan so the money is now coming from my saving.

I am really really angry. This has taught me a valuable lesson on who you bring aboard, and if they see your vision. If you have someone who wants to dominate or run the other direction with no focus then it chaos on the business owner.

My heart is breaking right now since I caused this infliction upon myself. But I see also that she is taking me for granted and have no reality check to understand what a burden this is now creating on me both emotional and financial.

Goodness....

Friday, September 24, 2010

Good News!!!!!!!!!! Yeeeee Haaaww!!!!!!

My friend Andrew suggested "Public access Television" to help produce my show. Guess what? It's 5 blocks from my house. What a blessing!!!I love God! It is not far from my house. I feel so energized. I just need to keep rolling and believing that God will take care of all details. Andrew was so great... he helped me rethink my mission statement. I was so eager to sell my self short but he reminded me of my core values/mission statement and to build my new ideal around this ideal. I am so grateful for people to come into my life.

I realized too that I need to be a better friend. I need to more of an active participant in other people's live. I have been somewhat secluded for awhile. I hope God will break that spell.

Giving up is too easy....

Yesterday, I was so fruastrated with my vision statement. I had to take it back and revise, and rethink it. I wanted my business to get off the ground by now. It has been 1 year since conception and I was still stuck in start up activities. It was was hard to swallow that this is where I was. Back at the beginning . I had this great idea of having a online dating show. But the cost of producing it will be alot. I am dreaming of the "mansion on the hill" but I am present living in the 'shack' which is my current operating budget and must confirm/live within my dream. I believe it has the power to take off and do well.

God always humbles me to no end. It is fraustrating since I feel I have no one to talk to. However, I did find the business counselor very helpful. This blog is my only avenue to really vent. I feel no one understands me.

Well enough of the pity party. It is too easy to give up. I am not a quitter...bottom line. If I have to rethink my vision to succeed then I will do the hard work to do so.

Saturday, June 26, 2010

Apps for Iphone

List of apps for iphone:

-zosh-free-fill and sign documents-no need for fax machine and can sign documents rihgt on your iphone.
-ideo method cards-free
-instapaper-book mark web brower to read offline for later.
rosie 41-
-business card reader-5.99-uses your iphone to add to your contacts.
-trip journal-0.99-document your trip journal
-sportsbook-free; gambler
-packing pro-$2.99; makes packing easier.
-weightbot-#1.99; weight and calculates BMI.
-get running-$1.99
-gymfu-0.99; cheaper than Wil Fit
-moodagent-free
-autostich-$2.99; creates pandorama.
-vintage video maker-1.99
-icamcorder-$1.99 for old iphone; records 15fps
-reel moments-$1.99; shoots frames at lenghty video
-sid player pro-$1.99
-saturation-free; create inspirational tools
-buro destruct-
-mill colour-free; photos
-tiltshift-1.99-make pictures minature
-hipstamic-1.99; flash camera
-tv tunes-.99; tunes of the TV shows
-goodreader-to read adobe doc bigger
-gettheuncommon.com-design your own iphone case

Do's and Don'ts when creating your website

Top Ten Do's and Don'ts from www.myownbusiness.com

TOP TEN DO'S

-Create a Web site to compliment your business.
-Hire a professional to create your Web site.
-Use a .com Web site domain name that is descriptive of your business and easy to remember.
-Register your domain name. Keep your account information in a safe place.
-Develop a mailing list to better connect with your visitors.
-Provide updated useful content on your Web site in order to encourage visitors to return.
-Encourage customer feedback via online forms and e-mail.
-Learn how to, and continually implement, ways to improve your placements on top search engines.
-Keep your eye on your competition’s rankings and get pointers from its sites.
-Consider eBay as a means of selling your product and gaining traffic to your online store.

TOP TEN DON'TS
-Assume a Web site will assure you of competing favorably with large, established competitors.
-Turn your customers off with an unprofessional Web site.
-Incorporate unusual or unique Web design styles that are difficult to print or save.
-Make it difficult to navigate your site.
-Permit out-of-date content to remain on your site.
-Rely on graphical buttons.
-Try to create a Web site on your own unless you are a Web designer.
-Make it difficult for people to find your contact information.
-Turn off your customers with unsolicited e-mail advertising.
-Weigh your pages down with too much graphics and media.

Common Pitfalls when opening a business

Here is excerpt from my favorite website www.yourownbusiness.com

Avoid the following when starting your own business:

-Haste
-Lack of focus; specialize, specialize, specialize
-Lack of on-the-job experience
-Inadequate research and testing; test market first
-Lack of well thought out business plan
-Lack of working capital
-Unprofessional decor, theme, logo, stationary, attire, packaging, ads, and website
-Not opening quickly to work out shortcomings
-Poor signs: signs should be big, clear, and readable-simple is good
-untrained staff
-poor relationship with vendors
-unfocused market plan
-not using the advertising media that works best for your specific business
-skimping on insurance
-ignoring possible problems
-not recoginizing your limitations

10 Do's and Don't in Starting a new business

Excert from myownbusiness.com

Ten Do's:
1. Live frugal and being saving up money for starting your own business.
2. Learn your intended business by working for someone else in the same business first.
3. Consider the benefits of starting a moonlight business.
4. Consider the advantages of operating a family business.
5. Objectively measure your skills and training against potential competition.
6. Consider subcontracting to low cost suppliers if you're manufacturing a product.
7. Test market your product or service before starting or expanding.
8. Make 'for' and 'against' list describing the specific business you are considering.
9. Talk to lots of people in your intent ed business for advice.
10. Make a comparative analysis of all opportunities you are considering.

Top Ten Don'ts
1. Don't even think about leaving your job until you have completed start up plans.
2. Don't consider starting a business in a field you do not enjoy.
3. Don't risk all the family assets. Limit your liabilities to a predetermined amount.
4. Don't compete with your employer in a moonlight business.
5. Don't be in a hurry to select a business. There is no penalty for missed opportunities.
6. Don't select a business that is too high risk or hurdle. Go for the 2 foot hurdle.
7. Avoid a business in which you must have the lowest price to succeed.
8. Don't be afraid to seek out and learn the negative aspects of an intended business.
9. Don't let entrepreneurial self-confidence outweigh careful diligence.
10. Don't let the promise of a conceptual high reward deter reality testing first.

Moreover, before you start your business, being developing a database of future customers you wish to target. This list can be used for direct mail, invitations, and newsletters. Your database could include specific individuals, companies, and groups by location. Begin now to :

-Join the Chamber of Commerce
-Collect business cards
-Collect names or mailing lists from your church, school, organizations, and community groups.
-Get involved in your industry and community affairs.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Living on faith...

Sometimes, I wonder if this website and business will come together as I had envision it. There has been numerous delays and obstacles that I sort of got depressed about it. Then I remembered I am truly living on faith that this will work out...that in my heart that a door will open when God wants it to.

Faith is sometimes 'blind' and yet 'powerful'. "Blind" as to blind to other people's negativity, self doubt, and disbelief that you will one day make it. You have to keep believing and keep getting up each morning and knowing that door will open someday. I am not on my own timeline but God's timeline.

Faith is 'powerful' knowing that you life is out of your control. That there is God who watches and cares for me. There are things in life that happens that reconfirms my faith. With or without proof, faith is what is getting me through this period of self doubt and despair.

Truly God has been patient with me and there is a bigger picture to it all. I have to keep the faith....

Most important, having strong faith, obiedence, and self-control is not only for the difficult times but also for good times for remembering the Lord.

Faith..is fuel that drives the heart and the soul.

Saturday, June 12, 2010

When your spouse does not follow your dream...

Today, I got a newsletter from a previous realtor that I worked with. I never bought a house from him but I still received his quarterly newsletters which I throughtly enjoyed. They are so personal and warm. He grabs your heart and draws you in which I like. It is like he is talking to you and you only. Kind of makes me feel special ...Even though I have not bought from him....I enjoy the content like helpful home tips and personal stories re: himself.

I had noticed the last 2 newsletter that he had incorporated and went out on his own business. He had written an article how his wife of 20 years are now separating and divorcing. I can't wonder if the stress of being a realtor in a terrible market and economy has hurt him. I wonder if the stress of no income finally broke the marriage. I felt a real stab in my heart. I know he truly believed in going out on his own and trying to make his business work. But should one's vision of having a business cost one their marriage?

Did the money run dry and so did her patience? I understand how important for your love one/spouse, to be behind you 100% to be there.

I don't know the full story...however, I do know struggling financially must really put a strain on the marriage.

In conclusion, my heart and prayers goes out to him, his wife, and his family during this trying time.

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Useful Website (PC World Magazine-June 2010)

I love finding helpful websites that make my life better and see below from PC World Magazine.


Teux Deux-task manager
Evernote-capture ideas, images, and audio clips.
Springpad-organizational tool.
Stickybits –add an online resume to your mobile gadet.
Smart.fm-online courses
mint-online considation of all your banking/retirement/investment
Logmein-long in to home pc
Bubbl.us-mind mapping
Zip code Lookup-getting package to the destination
Lala and Slacker and Grooeshark-music
Eventful-posting events
Cutmp3-load up song and trim it down
Librophile.com-online free audiobooks
Dropbox, yousendit, drop.io and humyo –online storage
Live Mesh-keep important files (mesh.com)
Livecage-streaming service ; stream video or audio; free video conferencing
Qik-stream live video from iphone or blackberry
Animoto-create a superslide show
Citrify-online photo editing
Pixorial-video editing
Huddle-web-based project management
Stacks-manage your project or team’s project
Genbook-easy to make an appointment with you.
Phonebooth-200 minutes for free
Zoho-online business tools
Jobspice-resume building with ease.
Textflow-editing changes with feedback from collegues.
Thefind-scour web for any product, sales, coupons, et
Retailmenot-coupon finder
Opentable- find a table
Nutritiondata-found out nutrition on most fast foods.
Sit or Squat-locate the nearest bathroom.
Meebo-connects to facebook, gootalk, etc through a slingle web interface.
Foursquare-find people and thing in real time
Faxzero-free fax with ad on cover sheet.
Sobees-bring all social networks together.
Passpack.com
Topicfire-good for love advice; drag relevant categories to your site.
Speedtest.com-test speed of net

http://www.pixorial.com/-video

Monday, May 24, 2010

Being content with your life and what you have

Being content has brought me alot of peace. I don't look to buy more things to decorate the bedroom or house. All the shopping catalogs go straight in the trash. I know the minute I open them they create a desire or want. Maybe that is how life is. We look around and we see other people having more stuff and believe it creates happiness. But I know in my heart, it does not by what I have already. I question myself that from now on my heart is now focused on family and my business. All the money I make is going into my business.

This is not just a temporary situation but a lifestyle choice in making better decisions for my money and making the dollar stretch around the block. I am going through my closet and trying to reinvent items for a different purpose. I wanted a rolling bookcase to house all my business books and resource materials so I used my shoe rack for that.

My armoire which was not being properly used is now my new bookcase for all my reading materials. I took the doors off to remind me to go back to my research materials for writing materials.

I put a notebook next my bed to capture ideas when I am reading Inc. magazine or other magazines.

I read somewhere to "organize the small to prepare to the big". I am welcoming good energy and things into my life.

Friday, May 21, 2010

Chasing image

Today I realized after being hit on the head numerous times by God that I was chasing an image, clothes, etc. I wanted more and more stuff which leads to trouble. Especially when you don't have any positive cash flow. I finally realized I need to be content with what I currently have and not want or ask more. I felt I had a different prospective. I realized I have everything that I wanted.

Today, I had a moment when I thinking about returning to my old corporate job. But then I realized my life is beautiful now. It does not matter if I don't have very much cash flow. But I could never live in this time and moment again.

I have a marketing class that starts in June so I look forward to it.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Website at a stall

So I built my website from a wordpress platform. I can't load videos on it. It states its too big. I am not sure what to do now. Wait..I remember I can cut and paste the Utube link into it. Great idea. I sat in class for Social Media and building your Website; however, I am still technically computer challenged. It is sort of discouraging since I need to polish and load up videos. It needs to be a finish product before I market it. Oh joys of start up business... but I would not trade it for the world.

Tips on Blogging

I was reading an article today on blogging and here are the tips from Entrepreneur.com and startupnation.com.

-Be consistent. Readers want lots of posts and fresh information.
-Be unique. Look for a unique topic and try to write about things in a different way from everyone else. Master your niche.
-Be personal. Readers want to know who is behind the site. Share personal stories and a little (but not too much about yourself.
-Show your passion. If you are passionate about the topic, readers will notice.
-Be instructional. Readers will keep coming back if they feel they are learning and beocming more knowledgeable about your topic.
-Network. Make it easy for people to find you and remind them that you're there. Start an RSS feed that people can subscribe to, start a Twitter account and send a tweek when you have a new post, and start a facebook page that you update regularly.
-Extrapolate carefully. Make sure there's a market for your product.
-Understand the top line. Be honest about what kind of profits there are to be made, and strategize about how to expand the ways in which you can make money.
-Be sure you're still having fun. If you're planning If you're planning to merge business with pleasure, be sure you've planned time to still enjoy your hobby.

Monday, May 3, 2010

Agh Sick

So I was out sick for 6 weeks in month of Jan and Feb. It seemed forever to bounce back and get my feet back on the ground. I was taking care of toddler which seemed to pick up every imaginable bug. I adore him but it was hard not to get sick.

So back on business track once again.

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Dogfish Bewery-Lesson Learned

I just finish reading about Sam Calgione with Dogfish Brewery out of Inc. Magazine.

What I extracted out of this article is:


Owner: Sam Calgione
Business: Dogfish Head Craft Brewery
Vision: Exposing his customer's palate to something other that pale lagers made by Big industrial breweries.
Niche: Eccentric/different beer such as Aprihop (apricot tasting beer).
Date of startup: 1995
2008 Revenue: $28 million

1) How humble he is: He never sits at the head of the table at meetings due to respect/knowledgement that others are putting alot of hard work/time into making the business great. On the same note, his cubicle is same size as others. How humbling that is when the CEO is on same plane and cubicle as his employees. This demonstrates how accessible and down-to-earth he really is. Quite a leader to view his company as one body and or sum of parts that equal to a great team dynamic.
2) Practice what you preach: He leaves his computer inbox open so he demonstrates accessibility and openness.
3) Work motto: Make work fun and enjoyable. Also, he is not trying to run a company where people aren't working for me. . He states 'The people who do the best at our company are working for themselves'.
4) Use social media: Twitter, Facebook, and such to post his latest event/happenings as to stay in touch with his fans/clients, distributors,and patrons.
5) Invite people who can promote for you: At a promotional dinner which paired beer with each course of the meals, hard core beer 'geeks' whom were invited had posted their feedback on Ratebeer.com and Beeradvocate.com before the dessert came.
6) Make your wife/significant other a member of your team (if qualified/other factors): When you partner with your life partner in a stake in your business, the outcome should be positive (as long as your partner has the the same vision/goals as the CEO/founder). They have a better understanding of you and work you put in the business. His wife is the Vice President and head of marketing, she ensures that the pictures/events are updated on various social media.
7) Keep a notebook by your bedside: He jotts down inspirational ideals and reads magazines through prism of his company. This keeps new ideals flowing and giving birth to new and innovative ideals.

I really respect his humility, humbleness, and maintaining his sense of sanity with work/life balance. My hats off to you if you are reading this.

Toyoko Joe's

I like to read a millionaire's story about every day or every other day. One in particular that I enjoyed reading was Larry Leith, owner/founder of Toyko's Joe, in Denver, Co.

Stats:
Owner: Larry Leith
Resturant: Toyoko's Joe
Vision: Casual, affordable, and healthy Japanese food.
Niche: A twist to the Japanese cusine. The promise of an American take on Japanese food for the average Joe.
Inspiration: Cookbook named 'Toyoko Joe's'
Owner's back ground: No former training/knowledge; he took a non-paying, 3 month apprenticesip at a local Japanese restaurant.
2008 Revenue: $22 million
Date of start up: 1996

I extracted the following from reading this article in Inc. July/Aug 2009issue:

1) Invest the hours. Larry was at work at 5:00am and staying until 11:00pm. He was investing the time needed to get a business up and started.
2) Personal touch-owner personally greeted each customer by name or knew what they ordered.
3) Franchised if you are profitable and can take the risk.
4) Owner's email is printed on all cups. He responds personally to every comment, compliment, or complaint within 48 hours.
5) Owner pays his managers a high salary with benefits. He invites every one of them to spend a summer with his family in Maui. Sweet.
6) He was quoted as saying "Be extremely good to your employees, and they'll be a lot better to your customers".

And if Larry is reading this..Thumbs up to thinking big and taking the risks/guts to franchise in your first year out! Next time I'm in Denver, I will have to bowl of steak noodle bowl.

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Family Dollar rules!

Earlier this month, I was shopping for white uniforms at the Goodwill. My goal was not to spend any money towards clothes. All my money is truly for paying bills and putting it towards business start up. It is a sacrifice that has not been too difficult considering I have all clothes I need. Last week, when I was dropping by Family Dollar store to pick up a toy for a child I take care of and lo and behold, I spied some nursing uniforms. I had no ideal Family Dollar carried uniforms. They may be second hand quality but at price range of $5.00-$7.50 for a uniform top and/ot bottom....well that is quite a steal. So of course I bought 3 tops and 1 pants for the price of $26.00. This was income-based shopping at it's finest...from a Target girl to Family dollar girl. Well thank goodness there are discount stores when you need them. I was so truly grateful to be able to afford several uniforms for good price. Earlier in the week, I was at a uniform shop near a Community Hospital, and the price of one top was between $22-24 dollars. Yes, indeed, Family Dollar store rules!

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Method-Cleaning Products

Check this story out about 2 young guys who created "Method" which all natural (non-toxic cleaning solutions) carried by Target. See below link and very inspiring.

http://www.rd.com/your-america-inspiring-people-and-stories/messy-guys-make-millions-selling-green-cleaning-products/article163547.html

Monday, February 1, 2010

Resignation

Flashback to 12/16/2009:
I submitted my resignation into my company. I felt like a house fell on top of me. At first, I thought I would be happy to leave but it turns out I was so sad leaving some people behind especially my boss. I pray she does not have any resentment towards me. I really feel she and I were made from the same cloth. We have alot of same emotions towards others. I am floored by her kindness and how gracious she is when I told her I was leaving. She is always saying positive things about me. She gives me hope. When I doubted myself she "believed" in me. I will never forget her act of kindness. Now, I have that same "hope" to give to others. I hope for a better world, homeless will have a home, my pain will end, my husband will appear, my children will come. I hope to be part of unit/family someday. I have 'hope' that God will give me a beautiful life. One of amazement and strength.

I uttered these very powerful words "My God is my God, My Lord is my Lord, and where He goes I will follow". That gives me such immense strength.

I was thinking of how unstable the economy is and for one to leave your job. Voluntary leave the nest egg that I was living. I was quite sorrowful of how I was not appreciative of things that were given to me on daily basis. I am so sorrowful that I had not made a decent contribution to my team/company. It breaks my heart. This was life I have know for about 11 years of my life and here it is that the door is closed.

I realized yesterday that I am already 'rich'. Rich with family, friend, and home. Money is a funny beast. It moves and flows. It can spent, loss, made. So I know in my heart I can make over my previous base pay. That is my goal. Go business or go bust.